So I woke up with lots on my mind which led me to a mega early spin class to try and work off my anxiety.
1. Am I going to get ghosted by Audi?
This plays into my insecurities -- I have no really good reason to wonder this, I just did...maybe he would realize he was way out of my league? IDK.
2. He texted. "Thanks for a very enjoyable evening!!"
We then chattered about a few other items and then I dropped off on the texting because...
I decided to google him. Well, this led to a pop up from a background check firm...which I just couldn't resist clicking.
Five minutes later, I've paid for the report and am diving in deep on Audi.
Turns out he's turning 47 next week, not 46. Why lie again over ONE year?
8+ years prior was bankruptcy.
12 years prior was eviction in Hollywood.
24 years prior a DUI.
Jesusssssssss.
Now I totally understand not mentioning any of that - he's cleaned up his act, has been with his new job where he is killing it for the past 8 years, just bought his condo last year, etc.
If I had skeletons like that in the closet, I sure as hell wouldn't go around advertising it.
BUT this shows a bad streak of bad behavior...
So we are lying about our age, he's definitely a star of the show narcissist type, andddd we've got this record in the past...
We are dead in the water. :(
and I am SO bummed.
My game plan tomorrow is to text him and say, "one week til your birthdaaaaay! 46 right?" and see if he admits to 47 or continues to lie.
I know this ^ doesn't change anything but it'll give me more peace of mind in really closing the door.
The handsome charming ones will get ya every damn time.
More tomorrow,
Sad Elle
1. Am I going to get ghosted by Audi?
This plays into my insecurities -- I have no really good reason to wonder this, I just did...maybe he would realize he was way out of my league? IDK.
2. He texted. "Thanks for a very enjoyable evening!!"
We then chattered about a few other items and then I dropped off on the texting because...
I decided to google him. Well, this led to a pop up from a background check firm...which I just couldn't resist clicking.
Five minutes later, I've paid for the report and am diving in deep on Audi.
Turns out he's turning 47 next week, not 46. Why lie again over ONE year?
8+ years prior was bankruptcy.
12 years prior was eviction in Hollywood.
24 years prior a DUI.
Jesusssssssss.
Now I totally understand not mentioning any of that - he's cleaned up his act, has been with his new job where he is killing it for the past 8 years, just bought his condo last year, etc.
If I had skeletons like that in the closet, I sure as hell wouldn't go around advertising it.
BUT this shows a bad streak of bad behavior...
So we are lying about our age, he's definitely a star of the show narcissist type, andddd we've got this record in the past...
We are dead in the water. :(
and I am SO bummed.
My game plan tomorrow is to text him and say, "one week til your birthdaaaaay! 46 right?" and see if he admits to 47 or continues to lie.
I know this ^ doesn't change anything but it'll give me more peace of mind in really closing the door.
The handsome charming ones will get ya every damn time.
More tomorrow,
Sad Elle
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