"This is a ridiculous double standard and I refuse to feel bad about her crying and throwing a tantrum."
X factor warned me that Arash was going to confront me about J - I didn't really believe him because Arash isn't all that confrontational sooooo when he walked in to discuss J, I was pretty surprised.
"So I just wanna discuss what went down Sunday.... I should've given you a heads up that she was coming over, you looked really shocked and surprised, so I apologize for not doing that but she left and was crying...."
"Crying? She said zero words to me. What is there to cry about? And you don't need to give me a heads up when you want to have your girlfriend over, its your house too but that does not obligate me to talk to her."
"I mean, we are back together and really giving it a go...she's a nice girl and she's never wronged you... she never has done something mean to you, like kick your cats or something."
"If she EVER even thought about kicking one of my cats I'd have her arrested and DEFINITELY wouldn't be speaking to her then so yes, you're correct - she has never done anything blatantly mean to me. However, a conversation is a two way road and this is my home as well. If she wants us to talk, all she needs to do is TALK. "Hey Elle, long time no see, how are you?" would've been sufficient but I refuse to feel bad for saying nothing when I am trying my best to stay out of this. It is NO secret that every friend you have dislikes her. It's not just me being a bitch, this is the way she presents herself to everyone close to you. I want you to be happy which is why I want to stay as far out of this as possible but I refuse to be fake." (so much for being Switzerland)
"Well, X factor really sucked for like a year. We all thought he was lame, rude, boring, and weird but now I think he's awesome and it just takes people different amounts of time to come out of their shell, Elle."
"Comparing my boyfriend to your girlfriend is a worthless activity Arash BUT maybe it will take us a year to see the good side of J. If that is the case, we can have this conversation again in a year. Or we won't need to because everyone will love her by then."
"We didn't like X Factor coming around and stuff, but we dealt with it."
"I stopped bringing him around if you remember correctly. Until he sent that email to you and Mia, he WASN'T around again. But that was his way of trying to show he was sorry for the past. What is J doing to prove she is sorry for her past actions? If she's sooooooo upset I didn't address her personally, why didn't she address me personally? Don't I have the exact same right to feel upset and cry because she didn't say anything to me? This is a ridiculous double standard and I refuse to feel bad about her crying and throwing a tantrum."
"Elle, I hate that everyone hates her...."
"When she meets my mom at the end of the month I will be able to decide whether to keep her or not. If ALL my friends dislike her and my mom does then clearly I am missing something."
"Arash -- don't make your decision based on everyones opinion, make your decision for yourself. You have intimate moments with J that none of us witness and I bet she isn't as self obsessed and rude with you as she is with us. All I am saying is, we don't like her and I do not see that changing in the foreseeable future. We still love and adore you. Don't feel bad bringing her places, don't think we will stop inviting you places, just don't expect your girlfriend to be OUR friend too."
"Okay, that's fair...."
SIGH. This child is UNBELIEVABLE. You can't bother to say anything to me in MY house yet you turn it around to look like the victim? Arash - have you forgotten the days of mirroring your phone to the TV to show us the hundreds of CRAZY BITCH TEXTS she would send on blast? Do you forget how rude she was to everyone at our housewarming party? Do you remember leaving that house party without saying goodbye to anyone because she was being a brat? Or when she harassed you for hours at Mia's birthday dinner and you were sitting there MISERABLE? Apparently so...
I know X factor has fucked up like 9023489023480348 times, I've got them ALL documented in a blog called lifeisnotarom.com -- obv. shit hasn't been forgotten. But he's also made major improvements in how he handles things and treats the entire situation.
Has J evolved? From her stunt on Sunday, sure as hell doesn't look like it.
It is 2016 and there is a to-do list 500 miles long, dealing with this devil spawn is NOT on my list so PLEASE for the love of God, leave me the fuck out of this J and Arash!
Praying J doesn't turn A against me because winning wars is what I am best at,