Alright so I MIGHT have really messed up my future with Cris because I was setting my standards of making plans a bit too high.
Friends have given me 50/50 mixed reviews so let me leave this one upto you to decide.
He texted Monday. It was good.
Nothing Tuesday.
Nothing Wednesday.
Thursday 12:30pm, "Hey, 8:30pm tonight work?"
Okay...am I some kind of loser who just keeps my entire evening free anxiously awaiting a text the day of our supposed second date?
NO.
One friend said that for a 35y/o to make plans (mind you, I had no idea where we were going to meet etc) on the day of -- its just rude.
That was my gut reaction too.
Yes, I get that you asked me on the second date during the first. That was hot and awesome andddddd I give you kudos.
But would it have killed you to text me Wednesday and say "hey let's do 8:30pm at xyz location."
So I replied back saying, "I never heard from you so I made plans with a friend."
That didn't go over well and he seemed instantly turned off.
"Well, we made plans last Thursday on our date to see each other this Thursday so I thought that was sufficient."
Well- it wasn't. And in the future, now he should know that I'd like some info prior to day of date.
I told a guy friend about this and he said I was actively ruining things with this guy for NO valid reason and I should quickly text him and fix it.
Well, shit.
So I texted him Friday wishing him a good weekend, he was a little sassy back but still left things open for us to meet at some point this week...
This week is my birthday week, a huge work event, a birthday event and I have only one night semi-available....I had planned to get some rest that evening but now I feel like I should reschedule this date for that night and just do the damn thing.
What do you think?
I know I shouldn't just let a good guy go to waste because I was being rigid but I am so busy right nowwwwwww.
Whineeeeeeee, whineeeeee, whineeeeeee.
Send help.
Elle
PS I hope everyone had an amazing weekend!
Friends have given me 50/50 mixed reviews so let me leave this one upto you to decide.
He texted Monday. It was good.
Nothing Tuesday.
Nothing Wednesday.
Thursday 12:30pm, "Hey, 8:30pm tonight work?"
Okay...am I some kind of loser who just keeps my entire evening free anxiously awaiting a text the day of our supposed second date?
NO.
One friend said that for a 35y/o to make plans (mind you, I had no idea where we were going to meet etc) on the day of -- its just rude.
That was my gut reaction too.
Yes, I get that you asked me on the second date during the first. That was hot and awesome andddddd I give you kudos.
But would it have killed you to text me Wednesday and say "hey let's do 8:30pm at xyz location."
So I replied back saying, "I never heard from you so I made plans with a friend."
That didn't go over well and he seemed instantly turned off.
"Well, we made plans last Thursday on our date to see each other this Thursday so I thought that was sufficient."
Well- it wasn't. And in the future, now he should know that I'd like some info prior to day of date.
I told a guy friend about this and he said I was actively ruining things with this guy for NO valid reason and I should quickly text him and fix it.
Well, shit.
So I texted him Friday wishing him a good weekend, he was a little sassy back but still left things open for us to meet at some point this week...
This week is my birthday week, a huge work event, a birthday event and I have only one night semi-available....I had planned to get some rest that evening but now I feel like I should reschedule this date for that night and just do the damn thing.
What do you think?
I know I shouldn't just let a good guy go to waste because I was being rigid but I am so busy right nowwwwwww.
Whineeeeeeee, whineeeeee, whineeeeeee.
Send help.
Elle
PS I hope everyone had an amazing weekend!
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