Tonight Arash and I were practicing his break up speech. He is FINALLY dumping his lunatic B girlfriend and we did some role playing to help him prepare.
PS having him as a roommate is so far the best ever. I adore him, he is the nicest guy, he's so sweet, just loveeeee him!
SO the breakup is planned for tonight, shes psychotic and alllll of my girlfriends hate her, I can't stand the sound of her voice and HOOOORAY she's out the door.
(pending he doesn't chicken out)
I asked him tonight if he was excited to get back on the tindersphere and his response shocked me. (he kicks ass on tinder because he's that cute and charming so I figured he'd be more than ready)
"Elle, I have decided to embark on a no dating and no sex journey. I want to cleanse myself of this hook up culture and be celibate for awhile.'"
This resonated with me because it's exactly what I've been doing. I guess there is an article in The New Yorker about a girl who embarked on the same journey, began focusing solely on herself and was much happier because of it.
I will admit, I feel much better X-ing the sex right out of my life. No strings to anyone and my mind is clear anddddddd I am LASER focused on myself. Definitely sounding like an only child now.
I will keep you posted on Arash's break-up, I'm sure its going to be comedy because this girl is a looney toon.
And I don't think this kid can live without sex, but I'll keep you posted on that too.
tooooodles,
Elle
PS having him as a roommate is so far the best ever. I adore him, he is the nicest guy, he's so sweet, just loveeeee him!
SO the breakup is planned for tonight, shes psychotic and alllll of my girlfriends hate her, I can't stand the sound of her voice and HOOOORAY she's out the door.
(pending he doesn't chicken out)
I asked him tonight if he was excited to get back on the tindersphere and his response shocked me. (he kicks ass on tinder because he's that cute and charming so I figured he'd be more than ready)
"Elle, I have decided to embark on a no dating and no sex journey. I want to cleanse myself of this hook up culture and be celibate for awhile.'"
This resonated with me because it's exactly what I've been doing. I guess there is an article in The New Yorker about a girl who embarked on the same journey, began focusing solely on herself and was much happier because of it.
I will admit, I feel much better X-ing the sex right out of my life. No strings to anyone and my mind is clear anddddddd I am LASER focused on myself. Definitely sounding like an only child now.
I will keep you posted on Arash's break-up, I'm sure its going to be comedy because this girl is a looney toon.
And I don't think this kid can live without sex, but I'll keep you posted on that too.
tooooodles,
Elle
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