Okay, we haven't gotten THAT many new fellas to take it but whatever. Arash did it last night, here's his results.
11 - Quality Time
9 - Words of Affirmation
5 - Physical Touch
4 - Acts of Service
1 - Receiving Gifts
Mine:
10 - Words
9 - Physical
7 - Quality
3 - Gifts
2 - Service
Our top 3 align. He gave me a bunch of shit for not valuing quality time more. Well, my past two relationships (Babak then XF) were both weekenders so quality time was minimal - you learn to adapt? Plus, if you value physical touch that means you're spending time with someone (can't virtually touch someone) so I don't think it's that big of a discrepancy.
He then went into discussing each point and said... "I enjoy just hanging out, watching shows, cooking, going grocery shopping, etc with someone...."
E: "You always tell me that you want "space" when you're dating someone, pick a stance and stick with it."
A: "No, I like doing all of the normal stuff with a girlfriend."
E: "You don't do any of the normal stuff with anyone except me...."
A: "Yeah....well, I enjoy it..."
With that, I swiftly changed topics.
2017 has been mighty interesting between A and I...that might have something to do with the bombshell I haven't dropped yet...
xo xo,
Elle
11 - Quality Time
9 - Words of Affirmation
5 - Physical Touch
4 - Acts of Service
1 - Receiving Gifts
Mine:
10 - Words
9 - Physical
7 - Quality
3 - Gifts
2 - Service
Our top 3 align. He gave me a bunch of shit for not valuing quality time more. Well, my past two relationships (Babak then XF) were both weekenders so quality time was minimal - you learn to adapt? Plus, if you value physical touch that means you're spending time with someone (can't virtually touch someone) so I don't think it's that big of a discrepancy.
He then went into discussing each point and said... "I enjoy just hanging out, watching shows, cooking, going grocery shopping, etc with someone...."
E: "You always tell me that you want "space" when you're dating someone, pick a stance and stick with it."
A: "No, I like doing all of the normal stuff with a girlfriend."
E: "You don't do any of the normal stuff with anyone except me...."
A: "Yeah....well, I enjoy it..."
With that, I swiftly changed topics.
2017 has been mighty interesting between A and I...that might have something to do with the bombshell I haven't dropped yet...
xo xo,
Elle
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