XF was, Babak was, and Liam was. That is over six years of my life (combined) dating introverts!
It's safe to say, I prefer the extroverts.
Bobby, Nate, Jake, Antonio, Rami. Alllll on the E scale of life.
Life is just more fun with someone who is outgoing and brings energy to a group.
My second date last night with Chase...decent but IDK if I can go down this introverted trail again...especially on the heels of Antonio who I didn't have to babysit in social settings.
So plans changed and Chase wound up coming to my house for a glass of wine before we walked to dinner.
I was actually really nervous (which doesn't happen to me often). So he comes over and I get him into my bedroom with the excuse that my roommate could get back at any moment so let's just hangout here. (Not my smoothest move but whatever)
So we lay in my bed, chatting, drinking wine and I am asking alllll the questions.
Sigh. This is kinda how date 1 was, I don't want it to be silence unless I am pushing the convos. Finally he sets his wine down and goes in for the kiss.
Not bad, not bad. (but I have had better)
That continues for awhile (loveeee a long makeout sesh) and then clothes are off (as expected) anddddd hello sex.
Lemme just say...every single guy (except Nate) that I've hooked up with since splitting with XF has been a magnum. I went my entire life prior to this encountering just 1 of those. Then allll the sudden, they are everywhere I turn.
The sex is fantastic. We totally connect and it's an A+ situation on the first try.
We decide we should get up and go get dinner but then he starts kissing me again and oops, round two is happening.
It's tough to find a guy who can recover in under ten minutes but Chase did and he did it WELL.
I could get used to this. Even Rami couldn't pull a move like Chase just did.
Finalllllly we get dressed and walk to dinner. We realize we have even more in common than we thought ( both only children with divorced parents face alot of the same challenges apparently) and it's kinda nice to talk to someone who understands. I've never dated an only child before so this is new terrain and I kinda like it?
Dinner once again feels like an interview (me asking, him answering) and I'm growing weary. We finish up dinner, walk back, he calls an uber, we kiss for 2.5 seconds, I thank him for a fun night and said let's do it again soon?
A bittttt of an awkward ending...
So let's see if this guy ghosts me or if he's just really hard to read. Date 1 I had no idea if he was going to ask me out again or not andddd he's admittedly an introvert. INFJ and I am an ENFJ.
I went from being 60/40 to 50/50 on him. The physical stuff is there but I am looking for a bit more than that.
We shall seeeeeee....
Tomorrow is date 2 with Velcro, kind of excited to see what shoes he wears, not gonna lie.