Raj is 35, successful, race car driver (on the side), funny, smart and easy to talk to. We just click.
We went on our first date months ago and due to crazy schedules hadn't been able to connect for date two until last night.
We went to an Improv show and it was fantastic.
First off, he paid for everything - I didn't even have a chance to offer.
Secondly, he's the easiest to talk to and really quite funny.
He is the PERFECT tinder friend.
When I look at him, I have no desire for him to kiss me and there is NO way I could sleep with him.
He's not terrible looking I just am not attracted whatsoever.
This really drives me nuts because this guy is fantastic and would probably be a pretty fun boyfriend to have.
But we will never find out because I feel zero things towards him.
He's invited me to dinner Thursday or Friday and I am going to take that as my opp. to transition him fully into the tinder friendzone aka I'm going to try and split the bill and avoid the first kiss that hasn't occurred yet.
Last night after the comedy show he walked me to my car and while he had ample opportunity to kiss me, all he did was execute a cheek peck. I'd think maybeeee he's getting friend vibes from me too except the steakhouse dinner date doesn't exactly scream friend activity...
Stay tuned on how we turn this one from tinder toad to tinder friend.